Updated: Nov 13, 2019
Stop and Smell the Roses: Mindfulness Tips
When was the last time you stopped and smelled the roses? Saw them bask in the sun? Touched their velvety petals? Listened to them ripple in the wind? In this day and age, we are exposed to so many different experiences. Social media allows us to see what everyone else is doing at any given moment. We can stream any kind of music with the click of a mouse. We live in a beautifully integrated–sometimes distracting–world. While we may be exposed to all sorts of sights, sounds, smells, tastes, and textures, we do not always purposefully savor or even acknowledge them. We often just go through the motions.
Practicing mindfulness is one way to cultivate a more engaged and improved quality of life. Mindfulness is calling attention to the present and acknowledging whatever you are experiencing at any given moment. Mindfulness awareness practices entail focusing on both internal and external experiences occurring now. When you practice mindfulness, you are fully engaged in the now without judging or criticizing. You accept your whole range of feelings without analyzing whether they may be “right” or “wrong.” You are not reliving what happened yesterday or anxiously awaiting tomorrow. Jon Kabat-Zinn, founder of the Mindfulness-Based Stress Reduction program, sums up meditation as “paying attention in a systematic way” and mindfulness as “presence of heart.”
Numerous studies have shown the effectiveness of mindfulness practices on improved quality of life as well as reductions in stress, anxiety, and depression. Mindfulness practices can benefit anyone, regardless of age, sex, or health status. Practicing mindfulness can improve immunity, stress management, learning, emotional regulation, focus, empathy, compassion, anxiety, stress, and eating habits. And it’s something you can start doing right this moment! While you can certainly cultivate mindfulness by meditating, Kabat-Zinn emphasizes that at its core, mindfulness is “about living your life as if it really mattered, moment by moment by moment by moment.”
Here are some simple tips for getting started with mindfulness practice:
Tune in to your breathing, especially during stressful or emotional times
Take time to become aware of what you’re sensing at any given moment (the sights, sounds, smells, etc.)
Remember that your thoughts and emotions are impermanent and do not characterize who you are.
Free yourself from habits of negative thinking.
Turn your attention inward to your body’s physical sensation: how your feet feel against the ground and how water trickles when you wash your hands.
Try a body scan, a guided meditation in which you focus your attention along your whole body, from the top of your head to the tip of your toes.
*Adapted from the Greater Good Science Center at the University of California, Berkeley